Rediscover Real Connection.
A New Social Club For Age-proud LGBTQI+ People.
Where Fun, Friendship, and Stimulating Conversations Come Together!
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What is Kiki clubhouse?
Kiki Club House is a new Sydney social community tailored for 35+ LGBTQI+ people (and their friends) who are looking to connect, socialise and have fun without the comedown. Our hosts will organise and facilitate a range of in-person events and activities, supported by a private community app for online connections and virtual events, all designed to help you meet like-minded people and build lasting friendships.
who is it for?
Our community is for LGBTQI people and allies aged 35 and over in Sydney who are seeking deeper connections, meaningful friendships, and a healthy social space. It’s created for people who are looking to connect in a healthy way and feel great on Tuesday. It's perfect for you if:
- You’re looking to meet new people in Sydney and have a great group of friends.
- Are transitioning from clubs and wanting to do more of your socialising in a healthier way.
- Have never felt like clubs were for you but still want a place to connect, socialise and play.
Why Join?
Feel Immediately At Home
From day one, our hosts and members will help you feel welcome, included and celebrated giving you an immediate feeling of belonging.
Fun, Energising & Intimidation-Free
Socialise at fun and friendly (in-person and online) events that leave you feeling energised and fulfilled.
Connect Effortlessly & Make New Friends
Go beyond small talk to form deep, lasting friendships through activities intentionally designed to help you spark meaningful connections.
Free To Be Your Authentic Self
A welcoming, judgment-free space where you can be yourself and connect with others in a supportive community.
Stay Social, Stay Playful
A space where fun, friendship, and authenticity never age—because being yourself and enjoying life doesn’t have an age limit.
Your Wellbeing Comes First
Our private app fosters meaningful connections in a safe and supportive space. Unlike social media; there is no ads, no data selling, no addictive design, and no unhealthy comparisons—just real friendships with real people.
Your Club, Your Community
We’re not just here to host—we’re here to create together. Whether it’s organising events, leading activities, or starting conversations, everyone is encouraged to contribute, connect, and shape the community they want to be a part of.
What's Included
Hosted Events
Regular in-person and online events and activities organised by our hosts and purposefully designed to help you meet other members and spark meaningful connections.
Online Space
A private, safe, ad-free app facilitated by our hosts for connecting and socialising in between events and hosting our virtual catch-ups.
Community Activities
We provide the space and encourgage members to organise events and activities for the community.
why am I starting This?
Hi, I am Liam 👋
I recently turned 40 and for the past few years have found myself struggling to find a space where I feel like I belong. As I've gotten older a lot of my straight friends have had kids and I rarely see them anymore and a lot of my gay friends have moved away. I have always loved a good party and would get a lot of my connection and play from a night on a dance floor having fun and meeting new people. And while I still love doing that every now and again, it's not something I want to be doing on a regular basis. Apart from the fact that I don't enjoy it as much as I used to, I find it in conflict with my goals and values of wanting to be healthy and form deeper connections and I just don't want to feel like rubbish for the next week. Outside of the clubs I feel that most of the queer venues cater to younger people and there are not a lot of places people aged 35+ like me enjoy going to meet new people, make friends and have fun. This problem has been compounded by the rise of apps, social media and Covid. My personal experience with apps and social media has often left me feeling disconnected and empty with a whole lot of wasted time to show for it. I want to stay connected and socially engaged as I get older, I don't want to feel left behind and I crave deeper friendships and meaningful interactions and I believe others do too. That's why I'm creating this community — to provide a safe, supportive and healthy space for us to connect, have fun, and feel a genuine sense of belonging.
Frequently Asked Questions
A. Unlike bars, clubs and apps which can feel intimidating and unwelcoming; Kiki Clubhouse is a community. It incorporates both in-person events and a private online space – both facilitated by hosts to help you feel welcome and connect with other members. It has been designed specifically to cater to the preferences and lifestyles of older LGBTQI+ people to provide a place to socialise, connect and have fun without the need for substances.
A. Yes KiKi is open to all ages, however it has been created to cater to older (35/40+) people who are transitioning out of the club and party scene (or who were never in that scene) and who are looking for a place to connect, socialise and make new friends without the comedown. We appreciate that younger people may also prefer this type of environment and encourage you to join.
A. No, we welcome all LGBTQI+ individuals and their friends who resonate with our purpose and values and are looking for meaningful connections in a space where they can be themselves.
A. We plan to host a monthly in-person Saturday Afternoon Social (or KiKi) as well as weekly virtual coffee catchups through our private community app. We also intend to organise other more intimate activities throughout the year, including brunches, outdoor activities, theatre and cultural visits, dinners, day trips and more (maybe even holidays eventually). Most importantly, our events will be intentionally designed to help you connect and get to know other members and facilitate stimulating conversations and meaningful friendships.
A. Yes! We really encourage you to organise activities and invite other members. We want to create the space for you as members to take the lead, contribute and co-create the community you’d like to be part of.
A. We’re still finalising the membership fees, our priority is to make it accessible while making sure we’re sustainable as an organisation.
A. Our intention is for Jan or Feb 2025 with the possibility of opening earlier to a small number of beta members to help test out the app and give feedback.
A. We want to make sure we’re creating a safe space with good vibes so there will be a short application questionnaire to ensure people joining are aligned in with our values.
A. A home for social gatherings and fun conversations with friends.
A. Absolutely. We prioritise your privacy and security. There are no ads, no selling of data, and a respectful environment where you can feel safe.
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